Motivational Monday – Lets Make Monday Better!

Monday I choose to be awesome, I choose to have an amazing day and time no matter what. Then my Monday is going to be great. *POSITIVE* it makes all the difference. ... ♡

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Ah Monday. The first day of the working week. It’s back to early starts, full on to do lists, not having enough time in the day to achieve everything and desperately trying to. If you’re one of the few that actually loves their job, then I applaud you, and I speak for the rest of us when I say how’d you do it? Seriously please drop me/us a note in the comment box below. I would love it if everyone shares how they make their working week work for them.

If you’re one of the majority whose job is OK if you don’t think about it too much, or it’s a bit dull, not creatively satisfying, very stressful or if you work with some not very nice people then I hope to inspire you with this post on this here Monday morning. This post isn’t designed to teach you “how to suck eggs” but let it be a prompt to what you already know. You may even already have some of these things in place.

First things first grab a steaming cup of lovely coffee, posh tea or a nice refreshing fruit juice in the morning.  Even something as small as a nice drink can brighten up your morning, whether it’s at home or en route to work. The more indulgent or special it is for you on a personal level the better you’ll feel. My personal fave is Pret A Manger Soya Cappuccino en route to work or an appointment. I will get up earlier so that I can sit in the coffee shop and take time to enjoy my drink, my surroundings and mentally prepare myself for the day.

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Have a decent breakfast:

Breakfast is so important in my book. Not only has it been proven to kick-start our metabolisms, if we eat the right foods it’s all great for our mental health too. Porridge, eggs and yoghurt with fruit are all excellent foods to start the day off with.

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Put on an outfit that you feel confident and beautiful in:

Now I realise that outfits should probably be planned the night or day before. However it is always a good idea to invest in a few simple lightweight black, navy and beige dresses that you can throw on when you’re in a rush. Pair with a little cardi, statement jewellery and some pumps. This look is classic and screams glamour without trying too hard.  Perfect for a Monday morning when you would rather be heading back to bed than out the door. It is true that if you look good you feel good. You’ll walk taller, be more confident and it is more likely that people will respond to you in a positive manner. You are also less likely to react sensitively or with hostility. These latter traits are easy to express when we don’t feel good in ourselves.

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Ensure your bag is packed with the essentials before you head out the door; phone, keys, wallet, work pass, rail or bus pass, deodrant, any femine hygiene products, make up essentials, a pen and your diary. 5 minutes before you head out the door mentally run through your day using your diary as a prompt – meetings, urgent work emails that you need to respond to and phone calls you need to make. Then put it out of your mind until you get to the office.  This exercise is designed to ensure you haven’t missed anything before you leave the house.

Deeps breaths and bring yourself into the present moment fully:

On the way to the office focus on the sights, smells, noise and the things you touch (through your feet and hands etc). This brings you into a “being” state, rather than a “doing” state and is much more relaxing for the mind. In short it brings you into the present and allows your mind to settle.

And remember this day will pass, and you will never get it back. Go out and be the best you can be. And remember don’t let anyone dull you sparkle!

Love

Lizzie x

A Little Update on Life & A Promise To Blog More Regularly

Hi Everyone,

I hope you’re all well; loving life and the beautiful British summer that we seem to be having at the moment. I know I am. Although as I type this the sun has gone behind a very omnious looking black cloud. I think a few spots of rain may be on its way…

I wanted to provide you gorgeous lot with an update on what’s been happening in my life since I last posted way back in June, and I’m pleased to say that on the whole it has been really positive, and I am hoping to post more regularly:

I achieved my 1 stone lost award at Slimming World.

It took me 13 weeks on the Slimming World diet to lose my stone but I got there a couple of weeks ago now. Unfortunately I have been ill with a virus this last week so I haven’t been able to make it to group. I’m gutted but trying to keep my motivation up so that I can have a loss when I go back next week. The week I won my stone award I also won Slimmer of the Week and to say I am over the moon at this double achievement would be an understatement. Two weeks on and I am still chuffed to bits.

{Me proud as punch with my stone award and Slimmer of the Week awards}

I am on better medication for my depression.

I switched from Duloxetine to Venlalic (which is a branded type of Venlafaxine). Both Duloxetine and Venlafaxine are SNRI’s.  Basically they’re both antidepressants of the serotonin-norepinephrine reuptake inhibitor (SNRI) class. They are prescribed to people like me who suffer from major depressive disorders. Unfortunately Duloxetine made me very nauseous and I felt quite heavily drugged whilst taking this medication. I decided to go back and see my GP in late June to see if I could move to something else, and she asked me if I would be willing to try another SNRI. I said yes, although I was sceptical. I mean how different could it be from Duloxetine? She prescribed me a 37.5mg dose of Venlalic – this is a super baby dose –  it is half of minimum dose that is usually prescribed, but I am pleased to say that it works for me. My mood has lifted and I am less tempted to binge eat. After the first couple of weeks the side effects lifted completely – the standard light headedness and nausea. I think this medication will always be part of my life as I would class myself as someone with chronic unhappiness and low mood even when life is good. I cry a lot when I am suffering. Depression is a flaw in chemistry, not character and I just need a little extra help. I will hopefully be ready to work at some point in the near future, but the focus is on getting well, and not running before I can walk.

I am exercising 5 times a week.

As I am not well enough to work at the moment (I am recovering from a lengthy breakdown) I have been making a concerted effort to incorporate exercise into my daily routine. At the moment I am doing Jillian Michaels 30 Day Shred DVD 5 days a week and I am pleased to say that I have completed all levels (1,2 and 3). It’s an excellent all over body workout, and I feel so pleased when I complete it everyday. Although it does have me crawling to the shower afterward, drenched in sweat

I’m loving life and rebuilding my confidence.

Due to the above points, as well as my supportive husband, family and friends I am getting my joie de vivre back. This has been helped also by a couple of furry friends, as Chris and I also added to our family…no we didn’t get pregnant – not yet anyway, but we did adopt a beautiful tortoise-shell cat called Honey, who had been given up by her last owners. She’s 16 years old, friendly, vocal and very loving. She’s a pleasure to have in our family, and Penny seems to have taken to the new addition admirably well.

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So now lovelies, I hope you are all having an equally lovely summer, and always I would love to hear your feedback on Slimming World, depression, life or anything that you feel is appropriate.

Much “joie de vivre” love

Lizzie 

Motivational Monday

Hey Lovelies,

Happy Monday! Sorry I haven’t blogged for a little bit, much has been going on in my life, and I am trying to figure out my next career move. At the moment and due to my depression  I work when I can (I undertake temporary work in offices) and when I am feeling like I can’t cope I don’t work. I do not claim benefits when I can’t work because I do not need to – thankfully. I really don’t have a passion for office admin work but that is what I fell in to. However like many people I have never found a job I enjoy –  this probably has not made it any easier to stick in a role. I find many offices extremely catty, and aggressive. I have only worked for two companies where this isn’t the case, but my depression has always caught up with me, and I have decided to leave these companies anyway.

I am just coming out of a depressive episode at the moment, and have cancelled some temporary work I was supposed to be doing. I didn’t tell them it was because of my depression, but I did tell them I was ill. This is a difficult situation to be in, and maybe I should start being honest with companies and agenices…

The way I feel today and more and more, I don’t ever want to step back into a fusty office again. For me working for “the man” isn’t something that I aspire to do. I want to spend time finding a job I love. Does that sound terribly idealistic? I know many people do not have the luxury of this option but I finally do. My husband now earns enough to support both of us and pay the mortgage. Things are still tight financially, but we can more than cope. It just means no luxurious holidays, meals out or new clothes for a while. I am not moaning about this. I am very grateful. I understand if you judge me for not working. I know many people will, but I need to do what’s right for me and my mental health. I know I am extremely fortunate to be in the position I am in and I do not take it for granted.

Despite the depression I really feel I am making progress with my self esteem. Day by day, week by week, month by month I am becoming stronger. I know what I want from my relationships and I know who I am as a person. This has a great deal to do with my husband, my family and friends, maintaing a healthy diet and exercise regimen, and I think also turning 30. I am now figuring out what I want in terms of a career, and I am not afraid to work my ass off to get it. Often I have been misunderstood by people; friends and colleagues and this has been hard on my self-esteem. Those friends that have treated me with hostility I have rid from my life. I am lucky enough to have a great bunch of people who love me warts and all, so getting rid of the negative people was a no-brainer.

My sister sent me a poem at the weekend, which I have attached for you below. It makes me feel better about myself, it confirms that I am not defined by my past actions, or my physical appearance or what people think of me. Rather, I am defined by my choices.

WHO ARE YOU REALLY POEM

This Weeks Diet & Fitness Progress

Last Thursday at my Slimming World meeting I stepped on the scales to find out I had lost another 1lb of weight. I was really happy with this result as I had not been good with my food or exercise last week. I have 1lb extra to lose until I hit the 7lb mark. I am really hoping to get to this milestone this week. (My weigh in is Wednesday night, so my week runs from Thursday – Wednesday). As you know this week I have been suffering a little from my depression. I think this will set me back on the scales on Wednesday, however I am hoping to pull it back and come away with another loss.

Despite the depression this week I have managed three exercise sessions and three days of eating well. I have also had two days of eating badly. I am back on track today and will be heading out for a run this evening and tomorrow day. I am starting to see a change in my body, and I am feeling a little more confident for it. My waist is starting to look more defined, in addition to my collar-bone. I still have a way to go in terms of my stomach and thighs.

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